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I know this is disgusting

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Hi everyone. Havent posted a topic in a while. Been busy at work and extremely depressed even with the switch from BuSpar to Klonipin. I just cant get rid of the anxiety. Last night, when I couldnt cope anymore and decided to cut, I realized something that I do before I cut again. Its like during each episode, I will make some semi deep long slashes, then after a few days, when Im nervous or mad at myself I will pull the scab/skin off that trying to heal the wound Ive created. Sometimes its so close to healing and I will force it open again. Its so painful that tears will come to my eyes but I will keep ripping it back open. I know. Im disgusting. I just realized last night how much I started shaking and how frustrated I got that the last ones healed and were smooth and I didnt have anything to do with my hands. I try to explain to my psych what I do but when I start getting into detail she just stares at me and kinda nods her head a little and I feel really embarrassed and stupid and I feel like she doesnt fully understand my panicky agitation that sets in at certain times. She gave me 1 mg Klonipin pills and said they were addictive and to only take them when necessary. I can understand that I guess, I dont want an addiction but I dont feel a difference in my anxiety or crying spells. Sometimes I feel like the effexor works but I dont know. Anyway, does anyone understand what Im saying or am I just gross?
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Hi...Your NOT gross or disgusting...I can kind of relate to what your going through...I\'ve never cut, but I do the same sh**with my emotional injuries...ripping away the flesh to the point of tears & screams...It a bit**...I want you to know that I think you think about finding someone to talk to that does something besides nod & give you Clonapin though...:)I also want you to know that even though your BEHAVIOR may be a little hard to swallow, YOU ARE NOT...You are someone that is special, & worthy of love...Please e-mail me @ michellegiese@sbcglobal.net if you feel like it...Let\'s talk...If you wanna...Im 38 with 3 kids...19-18-13...I would love to get to know ya better...Hope to hear from you soon...

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Michelle Giese
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hi, sandy. once again we have something in common. i always interfere with the healing of my wounds. i have a ton of them on my stomach right now where i scratched myself with my fingernails. i want them to heal before i go for my physical in april, but i can\'t stop picking them back open. it\'s always been that way. when the wounds do heal & i don\'t have anything to pick at anymore, i get anxious/freak out & hurt myself again. so, just know that you\'re not disgusting & you\'re not alone. feel free to write me anytime.
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hi, sandy. once again we have something in common. i always interfere with the healing of my wounds. i have a ton of them on my stomach right now where i scratched myself with my fingernails. i want them to heal before i go for my physical in april, but i can\'t stop picking them back open. it\'s always been that way. when the wounds do heal & i don\'t have anything to pick at anymore, i get anxious/freak out & hurt myself again. so, just know that you\'re not disgusting & you\'re not alone. feel free to write me anytime.
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i sit in class, and scratch at my wrists with my fingernails until they\'re raw and pink and very sensitive. then the next day i just pick the scab off. it hurts so bad but i get such a relief from it that the pain doesn\'t seem to matter anymore. it\'s like \"i have so many scars physically and emotionally already so why would one more make a difference?\" you\'re not alone, and you\'re not disgusting.
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OMG, I just realized that I was doing exactly that as i was reading your post. Pretty crazy actually. I cut myslef over 60 times in the last 3 nites and have been putting lotion on for last 2 days. I itches, so I scratch, then it bleeds again, so no need for my knife. A REALLY BAD CYCLE!
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Yeah I posted something else in another discussion but I hit on that exactly. It\'s seems gross... but it works. You know the saying about Idyle hands... we take it to the extreme. I can\'t let anything heal. My husband trys to make me put antiseptic on it but I refuse... if it gets infected it\'s just more pain to endure. i\'m a bit of a pain junkie outside of this anyway so it doesn\'t bother me.
Everyonce in a while i\'ll look at my body in the mirror and be more disgusted than usual cause I have all of these open sores from picking all over my body. i look like a friggin meth addict sometimes but it\'s what i have to do to stay sain i suppose...
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