Self-Injury Support Group

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how do I help her???

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well my daughter didnt make it through the day at school. her bandage came off her arm and a bunch of kids made comments about how she really is crazy and how sick it is that she cuts. it became to much for her so she came home. all she does is sleep anymore and I am so worried. I just wish that kids would understand that this is something she cant control. I try to tell her that I understand which I do cuase i also did self mutilation but all she cn so is no you dont nobody does. I m just so scared I am gonna loose her. and I cant imagine my life with out her.
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is she awake i will talk to her if she is
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no she is sleeping and that is all she does anymore.
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wen i went to school my techer found out i cut she dident tell no i at all eva but 1 day i was with all my freaind and had blood dripping from my arm and i went to her for help and my techer sead right u myt lose some freind hea but the 1ns wt sik bye u wil be tru freinds so she pold my sleeve u in frunt of my freinds and i lost about 4 freinds but al the rest ask was i ok and help me fru school the 1ns wt stude bye me saved my life 4 times and they keps it a secret so tell your dorter not to hide it cos her freinds wt walk away arnt freinds the ones wt stay are i lernt that the hard whay but hope she dusent have to hea my msn if she wants it i no im a bit older cos im 16 now but i wood love to help her out its
mby_stop_1day@hotmail.co.uk

hope she be ok i no its hard
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i did that for along time i am so sorry this is happening to u and her
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just love her
that's one of the best things you can do
don't be pushy
just love her
and be there for her

it's hard
i know it is
and i'm praying for the both of you

how old is she
maybe i can talk to her?
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sorry about your daughter :( bashamup has a 13 yr old who cuts if u want support from another parent, there are a few on here
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