Self-Injury Support Group

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HELP!!!

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my fiance wants me 2 stop cutting
he sed if i dont stop the engagements off
how can i make him understand that it helps me?
its not like i do it ALL the time
i can go months without cutting or hurting myself in some way
after that
i gotta do it
ive done it almost everyday for the past 5 days
it helps
wat can i do 2 make him stay with me?

becca
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*hugs* either he is just trying to make you stop OR he obviousy doesn't love you unconditionally, because if he did he'd marry you anyway, try talking to him about it *hugs* good luck
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*hugs* I hope you can work this out *hugs*
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Talk to him. Tell him that in order for you to get better that you need his help. Then tell him that something like this could cause you to cut again. Also tell him that you love him so much if he could be with you through this time.
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