if you were interested in a girl, how hard to get would you want her to be..
if you would be totally honest...
what is attractive and what is too clingy ?
what amount of satisfaction are you able to delay for the right person, and how much would you endure.. what lengths would you go to ?
if you were advising a woman who was a friend, and wanted her to have the best that she could have in life.. what kind of male would you say is a good type of person to wait for.. what is realistic to expect from a male??
it seems like they like 'hard to get' and sort of a little air/space/room.. time to recuperate, etc.
what if you are a female who can tolerate lots of independence... what amount of hard to get is taking it too far, too unreachable and unsatisfying..
i imagine it could differ but i just thought i'd ask.
i want to feel good in my own mind/body/etc. so i have to keep a distance, anyway.. but how much bitchyness can i get away with??? i really want to just let go and not be the type of woman that tries to please, i kind of believe in female empowerment.. i think the world needs more of it
so how much bitchy-ness can one get away with without losing said affection, and what degree of wanting to know the other person and walk towards them... is appropriate... i assume guys don't want to chase forever, because they get frustrated but.. when i play hard to get that's what i think you are supposed to do... and the second i stop playing hard to get.. the mystery and desire fizzle...
i can understand that, but.. i didn't see myself as being that co-dependent. i love to be in love, but i know focusing on me all on my own is enough for me to handle.. and then at the same time i don't want life and socializing and life experiences to slip away with no chance of being played out.
i guess the only thing to do is let go and nurture myself.... answer texts when and if i want to... not do anything just to try not to 'lose,' the other person........ because it seems the more freedom, the more fuel for the flame.. if you know what i mean...theres more oxygen instead of the suffocation of love by ego and attachment