i guess i will start by saying that i' not really sure what to do. My bf was trying to get a better job and ended up not having enough college hours. He needs to take 4 classes and wants to do it online but the money isn't really there at the moment. I have talked to him about this but sometimes i think he has blinders on and doesn't want to see what i'm saying. I support him but when i tell him that we need to think about the whole situation he just tells me that i'm not supporting him and if i don't like it then i can just leave. It hurts me becuase i do love him and i want him to do well but i'm thinking about our finacial future. I know there is finacial aid to help but it won't alaways cover everything. He is paying on loans right now from when he went to college but didn't finish. I just don't want to stress about this so i'm trying to be calm and think about what is best. I know what it is like to have debt and how hard it can be to pay it off. I just don't want us to get over our heads finacially.
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