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HOW TO DEAL WITH THIS EMOTIONAL ROLLER-COASTER WE CALL LOVE.
Hi, i'm a 16 year old girl.
and i know that throughout my lifetime i am going to date many people.
but i have been datting this guy, stewart, for 6 monthes, were perfect for each other, but his brothers girlfriend...my ex-best friend is starting rumors about me, saying that i'm pregnant with my guy bestfriend's baby. she has gotten his whole family to believe it, except stewart, he lives right down the road from me, and its hard to get enough time apart, but kayla the ex best friend put a note i wrote her, asking her to back off of me and stop saying stuff about me behind my back, and a fake copie of the note she wrote back on stewarts parents counter top. now they are accusing me of doing it, and dont even dare think that kayla would do it. but i have done nothing wrong. but his and my parents seem to think i do, and all they tell me is how much i screw up and what not.
I dont no what to do anymore. i dont think i should have to date stewart, plus his whole family and all there problems. and i dont think that i should get the short end of this stick everytime, the family always treats me badly. except stewart but he never seems to be able to stand up for me, and i dont know what to do anymore.
someone please help me.
and i know that throughout my lifetime i am going to date many people.
but i have been datting this guy, stewart, for 6 monthes, were perfect for each other, but his brothers girlfriend...my ex-best friend is starting rumors about me, saying that i'm pregnant with my guy bestfriend's baby. she has gotten his whole family to believe it, except stewart, he lives right down the road from me, and its hard to get enough time apart, but kayla the ex best friend put a note i wrote her, asking her to back off of me and stop saying stuff about me behind my back, and a fake copie of the note she wrote back on stewarts parents counter top. now they are accusing me of doing it, and dont even dare think that kayla would do it. but i have done nothing wrong. but his and my parents seem to think i do, and all they tell me is how much i screw up and what not.
I dont no what to do anymore. i dont think i should have to date stewart, plus his whole family and all there problems. and i dont think that i should get the short end of this stick everytime, the family always treats me badly. except stewart but he never seems to be able to stand up for me, and i dont know what to do anymore.
someone please help me.
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First thing First. You are only 16. For some reason drama at that age can really get outta hand. Sounds like alotta jealousy coming toward you. Let it go sweetie. Sometimes other girls can get jealous if they see a happy young couple around their own age in a loving relationship and will do anything to destroy it. You dont need fake friends so let them go because you deserve better than that. As for your BF, he really needs to stick up for you in public. If people see him defending you in public, than more than likely they will back off you. Trust me in time, these knuckle-heads will find somebody else to pick at. Oh and by the way, you never know what life has in store for ya. The next guy ya date might me the RIGHT man of your dreams who will treat you the way ya deserve andyou two will be happily married in couple of years. It can happen. Believe it!!!
Keep us posted ok sweetie.
Hugs, Niecy.