so just about an hour ago my man of 3 months that lives with me told me that he doesn't believe in marriage and doesn't ever want kinds....i don't either right now but he told me that if we lasted id have to wait till i was his age (31) till i could have kids...(im 23 now) i don't like having a certain time limit on stuff....i love kids and want at least two when im career stable and life stable....i have one year left in nursing and i don't want to rush things but it kinda killed me inside when i said "well i mean if u don't want to have kids and u don't believe in marriage then we disagree on two import things...i am not trying to change u..its just that if u really feel that way then we wont work..." he replied back "yup...you're right" i just wanted to cry...i don't want this stuff right now...but i KNOW i dontwant to wait till im 30....hes a nice guy and i WAS starting to fall for him...but after me saying "well maybe we could just date for fun.." he said "yeah i really dont want kids....ever" what do i do....do i let myself go...see what happens...or do i just keep that in my head and not let my self fall...OR do i end it now??
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