My husband has this co-worker (female) who supposedly is just like one the guys. She's usually someone who keeps to herself and just tags along with the fellas. Anyways, a couple of times she would come with the guys whenever we go out fishing which is cool, but I don't know I've seen my husband like put his hands on her shoulders in a playful way, but it has really made me uncomfortable lately. Also, my husband had to attend some meetings and she was the one that showed him where the meetings were held. What he didn't disclose, until later was that she stayed with him the first couple of times he went to the meetings. When I questioned him on it he really got upset, almost defensive. Also, when I told him how I felt, and asked how close were they really, he would brush it off or tell me I'm just being stupid. My husband cheated on me when we were just dating and when he used to be out on his "drug trips", and he swears up and down that now that we are married that He will never do cheat on me again. That was the past and now that he's in the military, he would never step into that world again. Am I just being paranoid and I'm reading too much into it or should I be concerned? How should I handle this without pissing him off?
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