First of all, I should mention I am in a relationship with someone that I don't love anymore, and it's only a matter of time before things are completely over. Okay, well I met someone a few months ago, and at the time we were both trying to get over our exes (I went back to mine). So things were very clear about being only friends. Well, at first all we talked about was his ex, and mine. Then, after a month, he quit talking about his ex. A month after that, I quit talking about mine. He still loves his ex, and is still heartbroken. But, I can't help but be attracted to him. He's everything I have ever wanted in someone. Well, I don't know what to think about him. He's never come flat out and said i don't like you as anything other than a friend, but he has made it clear that it's not going to happen for whatever reason. Ok, he's naturally flirty, but he pays more attention to me then I think is normal for "friends". Then, after I told him that I was attracted to him, we went to a concert...and...well...he put his arm around me and stuff like that. Nothing major, but...you know how you can just feel when someone hugs you how they feel about you? It's like that. I feel like I'm hus substitute girlfriend or something. Anytime he does something that involves going out with another couple, he invites me. He's made comments about kissing and stuff...but he's still really guarded, so I have no idea what to think. And when I ask him or try to talk to him...I know he's holding something back. I know he is...I just don't know what to do. I never want to not know this guy. I don't want things to get screwed up before they even have a chance. Advice anyone? Thank you!
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