I have to admit that i did put my wife up on a pedastal and that was my fault, but in my world i thought that was right... To start with we where married for a little over 5 years and i always trusted her with out any doubt... She worked for 3 years and quit for the last 2 years. We had a great relationship over all, but the last 5 months is when it started getting crazy, she started going out with her friends and then it started getting to be on a regular bases, i would catch her in one lie after another at where she would be at... Long story short she is now living with the guy and in the time that we where together i was home watching the step kids while she was going to the beach with her boyfriend, not quite fare...All this just started on dec.30 2007, my court date was on april 15 2008 and yes i am paying alimony and more then what her ex husband is paying her for child support for two kids not fare at all...From august until dec. i tryed talking to her but it was to late, i tryed to get her to get a job to get out of the house, but i look back now and see her plan and it worked to perfection for her... she is now living with another man and i am paying alimony and she is getting child support from her ex... but i still believe that things will still turn out for the best, but my trust in people has changed greatly,we have mutual friends that knew what was going on and would not tell me or be a witness for me in the court of law and now i"m paying a lot every month to my cheating wife and her new boyfriend... Bad enough that i lost the love of my life and to be betrayed to the extent that she did it in...
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