When I found out about he Affair I gave my husband my ring back cause I was so mad and hurt and I said he has to ask me to wear it again. Well its been about three months and he hasnt asked. He wears his and we are rebuilding our marriage but he says he not ready to give in back cause he doesnt forgive himself and he doesnt feel he deserves me wearing it. I mention it but he just keeps say he will. It just hurts sometimes cause its a part of me I look down at my hand and I get down, cause I start doubting, I start thinking maybe he just doesnt want me or he changed his mind. He says he just feels he has done so bad, hes afraid of hurting me again. I understand what he going through I do understand that after an affair both partners have to heal but I want my ring back, I honestly feel a little insecure without it.
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