I dont know what to do, finally after months of hurt and doing nothing but thinking about the affair I finally think I am geing over it. I am trusting my husband so much more and I dont think about the other woman 24 hours a day but now its like I'm moving on and my husband is stuck. I want to put this behind us but he says he hasnt forgiven himself. Honestly dont know what to do. Hes suck on what he did and I just want to finally move forward with my life. I have been feeling happier than ever lately, so strong, I just wish I know what was going hrough his head. I have never been in his shoes so maybe someone can make me understand whatts going through he cheaters head.