I revealed my 2+ month long affair to my husband. I will never, ever speak to or see the OM again, and I am happy about that. I want to rebuild.
My husband also cheated on me 8 years ago. He did not abide by the No Contact Rule, and kept up phone calls and emails with the OW for years. Also, he yelled and fought with me and threatened to leave every time I mentioned how hurt I was over his affair.
It took years for me to get over it because of the way he handled it. I wonder ... do I have a better chance of rebuilding with him because I will 100% abide by No Contact, and I know how to listen and care when he blows up over this??
I don't know... I just need some glimmer of hope right now. I hate myself.