I am new here and have been reading and re-reading everything here for the past month. I want to rebuild my marriage and so does my husband of 26 years. He had a one night fling on new years eve with an employee and he lost his job. It happened at work, it was mutual, but she came forward and reported him. Since this happened he has started AA, I am going to ala non, and we are going to counseling. I know I can't compare my pain to everyone else who have been trying to deal with long term affairs, but the pain is so unbearable. And I don't see how it'll ever go away. I'm reading a lot of books on infidelity, "not Just friends" "After the affair" , but coming here is so helpful. Do I blame alcohol? Do I blame myself? Her? At first when he told me I just blamed him, I couldn't believe that he would do this to us. Thanks for listening and being here.
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