We hit rock bottom, I dont know what to do. He says he wants o work thinks out but he has so much doubt that we can do it cause we fight so much. So I gave him a deadline to make up his mind and he still says he wants us but he doesnt know what to do. So I said that I dont want to be wih someone that doesnt know if he wants to be with me. I told him that I am taking the kids and leaving. But I really dont want to go, I want to make this work but we are both so afraid of it not working out this time we have tired so many things but we just argue. Is it ok to try to work things out with someone that has so much doubt. I'm just so afraid of getting hurt again. I just want to get passed this. I dont know if I should stay, Can you still work things through if u both have doubts and fear.I ask him what is he afriad of and he says of losing me and of this not working but I dont ge that why would u have so much doubt about it not working that it stops you from trying to work things out. Dont you lose both ways. I dont know if you understand, I just need some advice.
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