
Rebuilding Marriage After Infidelity Community Group
A community for those who have been through the heartbreak of infidelity and decided to stay with their partner and try to re-build the relationship.

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Yesterday was when we hit rock bottom.Everytime we try to talk we argue its getting to be too much. He even asked if I think its too late for us. He said he doesnt wan to give up but he doesn' want o argue anymore and neither do I. I just get so mad everyime we try tto talk its just one sided he just answers I dont know for everyhing. Some I came up with an idea I would like to know if you guys think its a good idea. I said we are going to by a book and write to each other twice a week and any and everyhing, no judgements and no discussing it when we talk or text, so we can get everyhing out without argueing. We are going to try for a month. What do you. I really hope this works because we both want i to work but its like we are suck, we can not commucate if we keep on going around in circles and talking about the same stuff because we never get everything all out cause we always start to argue. I just feel so tired but I'm not ready to give up, I really want this to work.

deleted_user
I think thats a great idea. Good luck!

deleted_user
If he's willing to participate... I think you may find out more than you ever wanted. lol :) I think it could definately work!

deleted_user
I think being able to write things down is very helpful. You can organize all your thoughts, add or delete what you want, and not have to wonder where the conversation is going to go before you can get everything off your chest. Good luck, I think it is a wonderful idea.
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