I am finally at a place where i "understand" how my H was in his "state of mind" when he had the affair. And i do believe that he wants to be an honest loving H now. I am aware of this and know that we will become a closer couple if my resentment was gone. I know i would heal quicker. But for some reason I cant let go of it. I believe we have a chance to be happier than we where prior to the affair and be "in love" again. When does the resentment leave?
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