As I struggle with trying to trust again I am haveing a hard time believing some of the things my wife is telling me. In particular she says that she never enjoyed the sex with the OM just the friendship part of the six month long relationship. She never wanted to leave me or felt as is she didnt love me. The problem is that I am having a hard time believing that she didnt enjoy all of the relationship and she is not being truthful with me now. So tell me is it possible ??? I want to begin to start trusting that she is being totally open with me but I am having a hard time.
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