I have decided to treat my husband as I would want to be treated. I don't call him every day or hour now that we have cell phones, text messaging, and email. But every once in awhile I'd just text I love you out of the blue. I know it makes him feel better. He says I have the just the right timing. I'll do that right in the middle of a bad day for him. I believe even though they are the cheaters they need some help healing from this situation. My husband does not feel worth being loved anymore. He feels he does not deserve it. The result, I don't get the affection either. So I complain at times but I do show him he is loved and worth being loved.
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