My husband's birthday is next week. I just don't feel like he deserves my attention for it. I will do things for the kids but I just don't feel like putting any effort from me. D-day was back in October. Since then I have not recieved any special treatment from him. I understand the man thing. So I've flat out have said what I want. I just want a card and maybe some flowers.(I really want that ring Kobe Bryants wife got LOL) For some reason that I can't get from him why he can't do it. I get nights out and a weekend away. Those are nice and needed. I just want a card from him. You hear these stories of the cheating spouses doing everything and anything. He even knows this. He's logged on here and read things. There have been special occasions that have come and gone and he can't acknowlege any of them. All my birthday and Christmas presents were labeled from the kids, even Valentines day. We also celebrated 20 years of being together, I got dinner but nothing else. I guess I'm complaining. What's hard for me is I've stated this, so I'm not expecting him to read my mind and he's still clueless. I even let him go out with his friends with no complaints from me. I didn't even get a thank you. Is anyone else feel like your spouse is trying but not enough to make you feel better.
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