My H has an issue with keeping things to himself, feelings problems etc. he has this "I can take care of it" attitude but he has completely screwed everything up by "taking care of it" Its been 10 months and things arent horrible which is nice but theres always something that happens we cant go a week without a behaviour issue that triggers my anger towards him. We went on vacation recently and we took 2 keys to the car (you know in case someone loses one we have the other) so he lost the spare key and doesnt tell me until the end of our vacation when we were packing to go home and I ask for it and he looks at me and is like I cant find it...So i start asking well where did you have it etc he gets anxious and says I checked all the bags since the begining of our trip. So I start freaking out because I gave him the spare key to hold on a key chain. So he loses it but doesnt tell me so I can help find it when he first noticed it was gone. I dont understand I told him that I think this is all apart of his lying and keeping things to himself. There was no reason for him to not tell me. I think he was trying to avoid conflict and me getting upset. But not telling me caused me to get even more angry I am not sure how to handle this because he doesnt see what hes doing. I told him to go back to therapy he said he will so maybe that will help ...any one else having issues like this??
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