I found out in Nov. that my husband of 14 years had an affair. He said that it never progressed to sex just touching and kissing. He and the OW had been carrying on for over a year I found out because I read some of his text messages. I cried initially, but now I am just pissed. I am angry all the time. What bothers me more than anything else is that he doesn't think he was terrible wrong because they did not have sex. I say that he broke our marriage vows. How can I trust again? He had told the OW that he doesn't want to continue with their "relationship" but she continues to call him at work and text him. He says that he does not talk to her, but I am still hurt. He thinks that I should put this behind me and he gets upset when I bring his affair up. I say that I need to talk about it. I am ashamed and I can't bring myself to tell my family and friends. You are all that I have.
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