My H never sent the OW a No Contact (N/C) letter. He works with her and felt that the very fact that they both reached the decision to end their A would be a mute point with a N/C letter. I know in my heart that he is done with her. That he is fully committed to our marriage. And I haven't given this a lot of thought, but this topic seems to be popping up a lot here on the forum. Since Dday was over a year ago, I'm actually thinking it would do more harm than good. Is it too late to send it? Should he? And why should he at this point? Thoughts & perspectives please.
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