Lately, I’ve been thinking that I’m just in limbo. While my H has been communicating well, he hasn’t made any real efforts towards repairing our marriage. We went to MC and we all felt about a month ago that we were well on our way to repairing the marriage. I should be happy about that, but I’m not. H still works with OW. He makes it sound like it’s miserable for him, but is he just saying that so that I feel better about it? It used to be that they were on separate floors, now they share the same office space. He rarely mentions her name. In fact, she hasn’t come up in the past week at all. So why am I feeling this way? I guess a part of me feels that it’s still too soon to have this whole “forgotten” about & move on like we should. I look at pictures before and after the A and think how stupid was I thinking we were all happy and for the after pictures, I see the sadness in me – the forced smiles. My H concedes that he has a lot of work to do on his part, but he still hasn’t done anything. I need help in letting go of all these things, one way or another. Any suggestions?
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