I obviously have unresolved anger from the past, but I don't pick on him all the time or make his daily existance hell. He has said " I'm tired of never feeling forgiven or something to that effect, to which I've replied " I'm not happy that you screwed my friend and neighbor" I know that's not nice but it's the truth. Sat. eve we had dinner at a resteraunt with his bro and wife, during the conversation his bro said " If you had spread your legs more it wouldn't have happened" I was stunned, I said "you did not just say that to me?" I got up and went to the ladies room in tears. When I returned no one said a word, no apology, no rebuke from MY H. Nothing. WOW. WE had quite a fight on the way home and I told him to pack his shit and get out of the house. I said "you didn't even stick up for me when I'm the one who did nothing wrong" Maybe a few days apart will do each of us some good. He never had to leave home after the affair so maybe this will clear his head and mine a bit. Any thoughts out there?
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