My H cheated on me with a neighbor and once I found out he moved out for 4 weeks. He said he made a terrible mistake and wants nothing more than to be with me and our two kids. So we're working on it. Go to therapy, communicate more. I am 90% sure there's NO contact. The only contact I can't be sure of is at work... But I cannot get my mind to stop picturing him driving in the car to meet her, talking to her every morning on the phone, walking next to me at the mall texting her. I can't let go of the pictures HE can bring up. When something is exciting and new, he can at any moment go back at "relive" the moments with HER. He says he doesn't that he has cmpletely blocked the A out of his mind. I know men compartmentalize but come on- to not think about it at all? HE says he doesn't get specific images just a general "I can't believe I did that" feeling. If he's saying all that, how do I let go of picturing him picturing the A? Does it ever get better?
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