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A community for those who have been through the heartbreak of infidelity and decided to stay with their partner and try to re-build the relationship.
This is an answer to that question from Rhonda Byrne the author of 'The Secret':"If you have ever asked this question then you will feel such enormous relief in knowing the answer,because it is so simple. How do you stop negative thoughts? You plant good thoughts!
When you try to stop negative thoughts,you are focusing on what you don't want-negative thoughts- and you will attract an abundance of them. They can never disappear if you are focused on them.
The truth is alway simple and it is always easy. To stop negative thoughts,just plant good thoughts! Deliberately plant good thoughts! You plant good thoughts by making it a daily practice to appreciate all the things in your day. Appreciate your health, your car, your home, your job, your friends, your surroundings, your meals, your pets, and the magnificent beauty of the day.Compliment, praise, and give thanks to all things. As you plant more and more good thoughts, the negative thoughts will be wiped out. Why? Because your focus is on good thoughts, and what you focus on you attract.
So don't give any attention to negative thoughts. Don't worry about them. If any come, make light of them, shrug them off, and let them be your reminder to deliberately think more good thoughts now."
If you have any books, articles, quotes to share on this topic please share them with all of us... We need as much encouragement as possible....
When you try to stop negative thoughts,you are focusing on what you don't want-negative thoughts- and you will attract an abundance of them. They can never disappear if you are focused on them.
The truth is alway simple and it is always easy. To stop negative thoughts,just plant good thoughts! Deliberately plant good thoughts! You plant good thoughts by making it a daily practice to appreciate all the things in your day. Appreciate your health, your car, your home, your job, your friends, your surroundings, your meals, your pets, and the magnificent beauty of the day.Compliment, praise, and give thanks to all things. As you plant more and more good thoughts, the negative thoughts will be wiped out. Why? Because your focus is on good thoughts, and what you focus on you attract.
So don't give any attention to negative thoughts. Don't worry about them. If any come, make light of them, shrug them off, and let them be your reminder to deliberately think more good thoughts now."
If you have any books, articles, quotes to share on this topic please share them with all of us... We need as much encouragement as possible....
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
Good for us all to do!
Mac
Just kidding. Although that is my favorite, I give my self positive things to do. I make a list. I'm a list person. When I'm down and can't seem to get those nasty thoughts out of my head I give myself a list of things to do. Sometimes it's a jobs list or somethings to do for myself. I check things off. i feel accomplished and my mind has been else where for awhile. Then at night, i say a silent prayer in my head of all the things I'm happy and thankful for. I often fall asleep, cause it goes on and on. I always thank God in the morning for helping me go to sleep. It's better than counting sheep or thinking of them together.