Is making friends online cheating, I don't know if I should accept my husband going to places that are simular to myspace or face. I have always trusted my husband completly before the affair but now I don't know what's allowed or not. Am I suspose to keep him on lock down or is making new friends ok. I told him I don't want to but than I started to think I have made new friends on here and have shared things with u guys that I don't tell my own family so am I being unfair. God knows if I could I would just lock him in a room so he won't have a chance to again but can we really control it I mean if he wanted to he would find away, I don't think controlling a man or woman every move will stop them but on the other hand I'm not really sure how much freedom to give him. He says he's just making friends but I get scared. I know what it feels like without u guys I wouldn't have made it past this. I just get so confused sometimes on what he can be "allowed" to do, to be honest I have four boys already I really don't want to set out things you can and can't do for someone else. I hate what this affair this done to me I have never been jealous and try to tell him u can't do that sometimes I wish I could just let go of the jealously. I mean is it ok that I still look through his phone, and it's not that I look because I think he's doing something to me it has just become a habit. Do cheaters deserve to have privacy and friends, is it ok to say u can do that but I can't. For the first time I feel like we are taking steps forword and no steps back, I don't want this to stop our progress. I could just use some advice.
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