This topic was meant mostly for those very far into the recovery process. I do believe in the beginning, you have to get to the raw truth of the adultery and the truth of the marriage and the relationship. But for those of you over a year into this, you have to know what I am talking about. Do you tell your H, the raw truth of everything, of every thought, no relationship could survive total brutal honesty all the time? Do you want your spouse to be totally brutally honest with you about ever single sordid detail? most of us have said, there are some things we just do not want to know. In therapy and on here, everyone talks about honesty. The cheater has to honest about the adultery, the betrayed has to be honest about the recovery, everyone has to be honest about the marriage, etc. etc. Is there such thing as too much honesty? I was never this blunt or honest before, and I was happy back then. Honestly can be cruel and ugly at times. What are your thoughts on this?
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