My H had an affair with a co-worker that was 15 years younger than me. He had a 5 month affair with her and it would of continued if i didn't find out and tell the OW that he was cheating on her with me (he was). He says he doesn't even see her that she is down the hall but there in the same dept. and he is her mentor. they work in a school and he told me she might be leaving after this year. I told him i couldn't stand him to continue to work with her during summer school or next year. Its hard enough for me to go through the next three months knowing there in the same bldg together. He lashed back at me saying that i was trying to control him and not considering his feelings. That he has been working there for 11 years and if he left he would have to start at the begining again. He has a short commute right now and if he went somewhere else the gas would be too expensive and we have a new house and two kids to feed and we are having a hard time as is with paying the bills. I dont know what to do. I dont think i can stand him working with her. i dont think i could get over the affair. I dont trust him. I understand if he leaves that there could be a pretty girl there that he could have an affair with. However i dont think its that easy to find someone that he would be attracted to (he is picky) and would have an affair with a married man with two small children. Any advice?
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