My family all know about the affair and they've been pretty great. Lately, one little problem is my family keeps asking my H how things are going. Sometimes they will catch him at a bad moment, like when he has just heard an affair story that has upset him, or passed OM on the street, or something of that nature. So, then when they ask him how it is going he will respond without much enthusiasm and say something like, well I think she's happy, but I thought so before and was wrong, or something like that. He always tells me later when someone asks him and he also tells me of his responses. I am ususally really positive whenever I talk to anyone about it, but they don't seem to ask me as much. I am not sure if I should be reassuring my family, or just letting them think what they want to think. I don't think they understand why my H is reluctant to be too optimistic to others. He is trying to protect himself. I am not even sure what I am trying to ask or say here.
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