I had an emotional affair (no sex) over eight years ago. However, I did not confess until just recently when my wife confessed that she had a sexual affair. I know that because of my previous actions I should be able to move on a lot quicker. But why am I having such a hard time getting past what she did? Is it my ego? Am I being a hyporcit? Or is this normal? We are trying to focus on rebuilding by going to counseling together and seperately. I just having a hard time letting go of the anger that another man touched my wife in places that only I have. She is very remorseful and regretful about what happened. I'm also regretful about my affair eight years ago. How do I move on? My wife has and is doing all the right things to rebuild, but I'm the one having a hard time.
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