I just finished reading 'what is love' and thinking about infactuation and the beginning of feelings....what happens when an affair starts? Do we have a choice with those initial feeling of infactuation? When attractions starts to we choose to feel that way or are our feelings stronger than our will? This is a discussion I had with the OM as he kept saying he couldn't help how he felt, but I argued that maybe really can and that we actually choose, maybe subconsciouly, to have those feelings. Why we make the choice...well that's another discussion.
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