In short, I first found out about my H Affair two days before Thanksgiving, just a "one time thing" but just found out a week ago it was an Affair that started in September and just ended. When I first found out, I of course wanted to work through it but now knowing it's been almost 6 months of lies... the pain just feels to deep. It's absolutely heart wrenching. I can name a hundred reasons why I should stay and why we should continue but I just don't know if I can get over what has been done. We have three small children, just purchased our second home... I'm a stay at home Mom, we really do have a lot of deep love for each other. BUT I don't know if I can get over the fact he was able to start a relationship with another women, he left me in a time when I needed him most, and I had NO idea. I want to make this work I DO so so badly but I don't know if I can ever be healed. So I'm left with either walking away from the man I love, which would be torture or try and make this work and deal with maybe never getting over this hurt. How do you do this? I read posts from some of you that have been years into this and it's still not gone?! I just want to scream and make this all go away.
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