I like this article and it is some sound advice. In a nutshell, she says that you don't necessarily have to commit to the marriage after you find out about the betrayal. You just have to commit to healing. The rest will follow. Interesting way to look at it for all of the newly betrayed here...even for us war vets, lol. Below is the link....
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sounds strange to say but I think I'm over the infidelitydday was over 2.5 years ago.first year was survivalsecond year was dealing more w wife's emotional and physical declinethird year.... at some point in the last month or so...I just seem to be, for lack of a better term, "OVER IT"its not that our relationship is good...its not.its not that I forgot. I won'tits not that I forgive...I still...