Hello. I'm new to the group. It's been 13mos since my wife's 2nd affair (same guy) in 7 years of being married. Both affairs went all summer until October. It's been real tough on us both, but more so for me. We agreed to rebuild our marriage, but after all this time, it doesn't seem like we're making any progress. I feel like I've turned into someone else. I'm always angry inside. I only see the worst in things. My wife doesn't seem to be supportive at crucial times. And, to make matters worse, I feel like a monster to my kids. I'm just so bitter about what happened. It's affected me so much and I'm trying to truly forgive her. I just don't know how to move forward. It's already been a year and I still feel like it was last week or something. What can I do to change all this?
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