Just joined. My husband had his fling 6 years ago. It still affects me. Mostly due to his lack of dealing with it after the fact. Minimized it, blamed me, etc. We've been in counseling for years, talked this over till we are blue in the face. But I have never really gotten closure. It doesn't hurt like it once did, but it is always there in the back of my mind. We have so many issues in our marriage right now. But I stumbled on this group from another members list and thought it might be helpful during the dark days.
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