New to this, I'm trying to rebuild my relationship after an affair. Its been five months, I found out on my five year wedding annivesary can you believe that. We have come along way it was been a hard two years. I werent communicating at all and we were both unhappy but we loved each other so much we didnt know how to say it. And it wasnt that I didnt want my husband I just needed us to improve our relationship but we did the wrong thing I got depressed and pushed him away and he started a friendship with a woman from work which turned into a sexual relationship. I knew something was happening but I couldnt prove it.Well I finally did find out and we went to talk to that Woman(whore) and he ended it. She said stuff that he told her that I know just werent true. He told her he could leave me cause I would never let him see the kids which was such a lie cause we have talked about that many times. He said he lied to her cause it made things easier. He said he felt he needed her because she would tell him all her problems which is something I have problems with and he felt good helping her. Now we are trying to build our relationship and build a friendship which I think was our main problem. We are so much strouger now but I still have my bad days when all I think about is her and I compare myself to her.Like you text her 100 times a day and you only do it with me 99 stupid things like that. A week ago we promised to stop doing that so I can move on and I\'m trying hard.I need advice on tips to help us rebuild, I want to come out stronger as a couple and stop either of us from needed anyone else for anything. Help!! Thank You
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