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I was just wondering what your dreams used to be before you found out about the affair and what your dreams consist of now. By dreams, I mean what you do at night while you sleep.
I remember before my husband confessed to me about his affair, I would have dreams about tornadoes. I have a degree in Biology and have always been facinated by weather and especially tornadoes. They are able to tear whole towns apart and so easily kill people. Their destructive power is unthinkable. I would have dreams about tornadoes about once a week. I thought it was because of my curiosity, but now I am beginning to wonder if I subconciously knew what was going on. A tornado and an affair are very similar. Extremely distructive and can kill in an instant.
Now, I am having dreams about me sleeping with other people. I IN NO WAY WANT TO DO THIS, but I suppose it is the revenge part of this whole thing that is stuck in my brain.
Do any of you have wacked-out dreams like this?
I remember before my husband confessed to me about his affair, I would have dreams about tornadoes. I have a degree in Biology and have always been facinated by weather and especially tornadoes. They are able to tear whole towns apart and so easily kill people. Their destructive power is unthinkable. I would have dreams about tornadoes about once a week. I thought it was because of my curiosity, but now I am beginning to wonder if I subconciously knew what was going on. A tornado and an affair are very similar. Extremely distructive and can kill in an instant.
Now, I am having dreams about me sleeping with other people. I IN NO WAY WANT TO DO THIS, but I suppose it is the revenge part of this whole thing that is stuck in my brain.
Do any of you have wacked-out dreams like this?
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I miss traveling with my husband. Has anyone found a specific site regarding cruising for widow/widowers or any sightseeing trips. Not interested in being with couples and kids,,,I realize a cruise ship will have a portion size of families and couples, but perhaps they also put together a part of the cruise ship for groups of widows/widowers????
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
I used to dream about stuff like our kids graduations or a trip to Hawaii. I haven't had any of those normal kinds of dreams since Dday.
I have also had dreams about me with other men. Strangely though, when things get hot and heavy with the other man, that man turns into my H in one way or another. Usually it becomes him in all ways, but sometimes the man ends up with my H's voice, eyes, or moves exactly like my H does.
I can't even do what he did in my dreams.