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I was just wondering what your dreams used to be before you found out about the affair and what your dreams consist of now. By dreams, I mean what you do at night while you sleep.
I remember before my husband confessed to me about his affair, I would have dreams about tornadoes. I have a degree in Biology and have always been facinated by weather and especially tornadoes. They are able to tear whole towns apart and so easily kill people. Their destructive power is unthinkable. I would have dreams about tornadoes about once a week. I thought it was because of my curiosity, but now I am beginning to wonder if I subconciously knew what was going on. A tornado and an affair are very similar. Extremely distructive and can kill in an instant.
Now, I am having dreams about me sleeping with other people. I IN NO WAY WANT TO DO THIS, but I suppose it is the revenge part of this whole thing that is stuck in my brain.
Do any of you have wacked-out dreams like this?
I remember before my husband confessed to me about his affair, I would have dreams about tornadoes. I have a degree in Biology and have always been facinated by weather and especially tornadoes. They are able to tear whole towns apart and so easily kill people. Their destructive power is unthinkable. I would have dreams about tornadoes about once a week. I thought it was because of my curiosity, but now I am beginning to wonder if I subconciously knew what was going on. A tornado and an affair are very similar. Extremely distructive and can kill in an instant.
Now, I am having dreams about me sleeping with other people. I IN NO WAY WANT TO DO THIS, but I suppose it is the revenge part of this whole thing that is stuck in my brain.
Do any of you have wacked-out dreams like this?
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I used to dream about stuff like our kids graduations or a trip to Hawaii. I haven't had any of those normal kinds of dreams since Dday.
I have also had dreams about me with other men. Strangely though, when things get hot and heavy with the other man, that man turns into my H in one way or another. Usually it becomes him in all ways, but sometimes the man ends up with my H's voice, eyes, or moves exactly like my H does.
I can't even do what he did in my dreams.