I just got asked to join and I think it is a great idea to be with others that are ready and wanting to work towards renewing the marriage. I have always went with my gut feeling and honestly it sometimes has me treaking everything he says or does to make sure he isn't doing something, but I think now my gut is just in a protection mode. He is been understanding with a few fall backs but I feel like he truely wants more for us and our kids. Yesterday when I was writing in his 10th ann card I couldn't write I hope the next 10 is as good/better than the first b/c they were pretty crappy considering all this started in 01 and escalated to all kinds if crap then to him actually cheating. But after I thought about it I wrote that we had grown alot and learned alot about ourselves and eachother. I believe we have finally laid a firm foundation to build our marriage on and lets keep our eyes on eachother so that we can work on building our lives with eachother and good home for our kids. Our ann was back in June but our little girl was born the day before our ann and I picked the card up like a week after our ann but i just kept waiting for the right moment to feel it out and give it to him so when he left me a card on my mirror (just b/c card- he brought me my ann card & roses to the hospital) I knew it was time. I am so glad that I have joined this group b/c for some reason it feels more of a step towards wanting my marriage to work.
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