
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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I was raped by my god brother almost ten years ago. Sometimes I think about finding him so I could beat the hell out of him. Sometimes I also think about asking him why. I should of pressed charges but I wanted it to be out of my life. I sometimes wonder if he's done this to anyone else. How does he sleep at night? Is he still alive? What kind of person is he now? All these questions and no answers. How will I be able to protect my children in the future or trust them with a family member?
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I think, at the time, when I wrote it, I did help. But, I guess what I was really wanting out of it, was an apology. I never got it. I learned from him mom later, that my letter help him feel better about the whole situation.
Well, isn't that just hunky dory?!
My opinion is men who rape are pigs, incapable of feelings. They obviously didn't have any when they do this to us, they certainly aren't going to now.
I guess, what I'm saying is, I don't think talking to him is the answer, but that's my opinion. Again, writing that letter really helped me. But, I also knew he got it.
Had I just written it, and maybe sent it to someone else I knew (telling them about it, obviously) or just thrown it away or something, maybe it would have been ok. Unfortunately, it didn't work that way.
I don't know, I guess, what exactly I'm trying to say. I know it has helped me with many issues, just to sit down and write. Say what you wanna say. Put it all down on paper.
It may help.
I'm sorry if I'm not much help.