
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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I was raped 2 years ago and I am married. My husband was great through the whole thing and is truely my best friend.....our sex life has never been the same since. We are intimate, yes, but it takes alot of effort on my part and most the time I just do not want to have anything to do with sex. When will this change? I love him and am attracted to him, I trust him completely but It is so different now.Any suggestions on how totear down this wall?
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i'm kind of going through the same thing. my boyfriend has been great through it all, but it takes a lot of effort for me to clear my head and get into it. it's been 3 years for me and it's getting better. i think in my case i wasn't actively trying to work through my rape and just joining this support group has really helped me. i don't knwo if you've gotten help or whatnot. sooner or later you'll be able to tear down pieces of the wall. i have hope and confidence in that. :-) good luck!
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