Yes I think you will, but it took me a long time of unhappy sex before I found I was into it. You are very lucky to have such a great guy and he sounds like he would be supportive in this. Have you tried going away kid free somewhere romantic and taking it from there? Being very sensual rather than overtly sexy might help, it did for me. Adding stress to yourself about it though wont help I am sorry to say. Do yu have a fav place, maybe somewhere where you went while you were dating you could revisit and see it those feeling revisited you?
Thats my advice, I hope it helps.

hey,

i'm kind of going through the same thing. my boyfriend has been great through it all, but it takes a lot of effort for me to clear my head and get into it. it's been 3 years for me and it's getting better. i think in my case i wasn't actively trying to work through my rape and just joining this support group has really helped me. i don't knwo if you've gotten help or whatnot. sooner or later you'll be able to tear down pieces of the wall. i have hope and confidence in that. :-) good luck!

xoxo

I feel excatly the same way as you. I was raped 1 1/2 years ago. I've been in my relationship for three years and right now I fell I could go the rest of my life with out sex.
The book that has been helping me alot is called "The Jounrey to Sexual Healing". I got it at amazon.com. It has made me come to terms with how I am feeling and has been the biggest help of all to me. It's hard to talk about this probelm with anyone. Even my councler I have a hard time talking about my sex life...

This book has really helped me feel not alone with this situation.