i want my abusers to have the exact things done to them that they did to me. the exact things, the same severity, the same length of time, everything, they need to have it done to them.

Death Sentence. Without a doubt. That's what it feels like I've been given.

I'm angry, and sad, and bitter, and I feel like he's stolen so much from me, but I don't want him to die. I don't want anyone to die.

Rapists and bad people can sometimes just be messed up. Do you have any idea how many come from broken families and I mean really broken families?

My mother works in Canadian prison system in forensic psychology. She sees so many people who are in jail because, basically, their brains don't work right enough to allow them to exist in our society without messing up.

I'm not excusing what anyone has done. I'd love to take a 2 by 4 to the head of the person who did this to me. But I don't want anyone to die.

If I could change the system there would be mandatory psychological screening for anyone going to jail. If it comes up with results outside of the normal parameters than the person STILL goes to a secure facility, but they go to a forensic psychological facility where they can be given medications (and yes, in some cases chemically castrated) and treatments to at least TRY and fix them so they can live in society.

The way I see it, there are 3 roads we can take.

Option 1: kill 'em
Option 2: jail them and try to "punish" them. All this does is removes them even MORE from society, and likely just mess them up more
Option 3: treat/help the bastards, although they don't deserve a penny of it, it's not for them, it's to save their next victim.

I agree with what your saying,
I also think that what goes around comes around.
There is real evil in this world and I don't believe anyone just walks away, we may never see it happen, but it is dealt with.

I'm moved and interested by what everyone's been saying here. It's a good, big step. But keep going! I think it's really important to let others know what we, the victims feel should be done to our abusers. You never know who might be reading this. Maybe someone who has the power to make the abusers get what they really deserve.

A very central part of me is my solid belief in God. Man's justice system can never give back what was taken from us, but I've just got to believe that He's got our back and eventually there will be some form of justice.

I totally agree with what you're saying, Letz. I believe that God was right when he said "vengeance is mine." And in my life he's already doing that. My abuser was in a car accident that will leave him crippled for the rest of his life and now his marriage is falling apart. I may still want to get back at him, and every other abuser out there, sometimes, but deep down I know that I'll never really have to because God is already taking care of it for me.

I'm with you. I think they get away with it way to easy. I think they should be hung for everybody to see then burnt. Why should we care if capital punishment is human-main ? They didn't care when they did what they did. Cruel and unusual punishment ? I don't think so. Not after what they did. They deserve to die . Die painful. Sorry about the spelling.

As far as the death penalty or even chemical castration I don't find that to be reasonable. Throw them under the jail. It has always been said leave the child molestors in jail and they will be taken care of. It's hard to actually say, b/c I personally hope mine thinks about it daily and the exact kind of hell he's put me through. I have had numerous encounters w/ my rapiest. He even works where I work just in a diff. area. I know your saying how do I do it. It's not an easy thing, but it's easier then you think. I have ways of not having to look at him or see him and I know if there is any problem then I can go to management and have it taken care of. Even if they were put to death it's still not going to take away your pain b/c most of you don't see your rapist's now so how would knowing they are dead make a diff. So what you think if they are dead then they can't do it to anyone else? Jail is a perfect option, but I don't believe the death penalty is. I believe when it comes to child molestors and rapists God will judge them just as he will judge us all.

I hate my rapist for what he has put me through but i dont think i would want him to die. I thank him becasue he has made me a stronger person. What he did to me showed me who my real friends are, and although its hard sometimes i think im a better person for what he did to me.

I'm not sure how I feel about this one.

There's a part of me that feels like he's still a human being, still deserving of some basic rights. Maybe he just messed up that one day and was a great person the rest of his life, I have no way of knowing. It makes me feel bad about even thinking of trying to get him to go to jail because he might be raped there, and that's never okay.

Then there's another part of me that would love to know that he's in jail being raped and tortured by everyone who found out what he did. I'd like to torture him myself, do anything to make him feel even a fraction of what he made me feel.

Killing them off is not going to fix anything. He completely changed who I am and he changed my life he changed who my friehds are he changed what i thought he changed everything about me. I did the same back. I suffered so I knew he better suffer too and killing him would give him a way out. I know for a fact that he messed up his life too. He is in Prison right now and i thank god that he is. He lost his job and he lost his family. I think the only thing that really should be worked on in the justice system is how the process goes. I reported him and he was out on bail the next morning!!! and then the put off the court dates for months and he didnt even get sentenced and placed in prison until 10 months later after it happened and he was out on bail the entire time. I think that if they could handle it quicker it would be a good improvment. Killing them off isnt the answer at all. I dont want to wish he was dead because that would make me just as bad a person as him. I want justice and i want to move on and live my life again.

What kind of punishment do you wish for these evil people? Wow what a question.. I want them to feel what I feel/felt the physical pain/the mental anguish but there is a soft side to me as well.. I do not want to ruin an eighteen yr old kids life because he was sucked into another sickness.. the death penalty I believe God controls that.. and we do not have the right to say who is to live and die.. Do to childhood issues I have taken a good hard look at what I feel the right punishment is for any rapist pig.. but well MS DN DG MC Russell & LK I feel I life sentence would be just fine! there are victims to what they started but I will not be responsible for ruining a childs life of eighteen. then I would be just as bad as them... The Others should do prison time... they were grown men.. and the woman who support them I dont get it!

at first i thought fuck with them like they did me... but then i thought... if that was a punishment there would always be an abuser... so i think instead of that the death penalty would solve the problem!

On the one hand I would want the death penalty but it's hard enough for a rapist to be convicted, I think that would just make the jury want to convict even less. Maybe in certain circumstances they could have the death penalty, like if there is overwhelming evidence or something like that. But yeah, I think that's fine. I would like him to suffer instead, but I don't think that's possible because I don't think he has a conscience. Maybe getting pounded in prison would be great.