
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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So When I was raped I turned the guy in and he plead guilty and was sentenced but ever since the moment I turned him in I have felt so so guilty. Everytime I think about it i just cry and i say im sorry i didnt mean to call the police. I feel like sorry for him... like im sorry I ruined your life and that your prison. its like so much for me to comprehend that he is in prison because of me? its so weird tho because i know he raped I KNOW he did. but why do i feel bad that I called the police? I saw in court and I mouthed it to him i told him I was sorry! Why would I do that????
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Talk it over with a good counsellor, you're probably going to have a lot of different/confused feelings about the guy at different times, that is normal, you just need to get it out somewhere it'll be safe and confidential.
Take good care of yourself
I just want you to know that I'm proud that you turned him in, even though it makes you feel guilty. My father was proud of me defending myself too. He'd have been disappointed had I just let people get away with things.
HE decided to commit this crime.
The POLICE decided to investigate your case.
The DISTRICT ATTORNEY decided to send the case to court.
The JUDGE handed him his sentence.
The LAWS decided what his punishment would be for his crimes.
All you did was ask for help, which you deserve. Do you think ALL of these people were wrong to send him to jail for what he did?
Its normal to feel guilty and blame yourself, but please know that it is not your fault. You didn't do anything wrong.