I have a question; I fight with this a lot. I have never told me story to anyone, I have told bits and pieces but it is like sometimes I cant remember and other times it all real again. I still blame myself, I wondering if I am just overreacting, and was it really rape? He was a friend, he wanted more then to be just friends, I went to talk and I told him before I went over it was just to talk The next thing I know he was having sex with me, it was so serial, I didnt know what was going on, I was in such shock I couldnt speak. When I finally got my voice back I told him to stop, that I didnt want this, and he stopped. So, if he stopped when I told him to, is it still rape? I never wanted to sleep with him, it hurt so badly, but technically when I told him to stop he did. This is where I am confused. Was it rape?
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