Rape Support Group

If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

1,558 Members
8,944 Posts
0 Online
Traumas & Injuries
/ Rape Support Group

was it rape?

deleted_user
deleted_user
i dnt no if it is rape as its all my fault i went out n drank so much alcohol i kept slippin in n out of consiousness wen i woke up at 1 piont i remember a boy on top of me n we wer havin sex but i was unconsious wen it started i didnt have a clue wot was goin on then i went unconsious agen next time i woke up with my friends boyfriend pullin the boy off me i only remember little bits my friend maken me make maself b sick she dressed me n carried me dwn 2 my mothers car the nxt morning i was covered in bruises between my legs on my wrists n places like elbow's but the elbow injurys wer from fallin over i no wot happened was my fault so i havnt told alot of people my friend and her boyfriend lied to me for months about wot happened as i could only remember little bits in the end my friend told me it was all my fault i ruined there night and we havnt spoken about it sinse i'm so ashamed :'(
deleted_user
deleted_user
You have nothing to be ashamed about... that is rape. I'm sorry you had to go through that, are you ok? i'm here if you need to talk. xxxx
deleted_user
deleted_user
i'v had 2 deal with this for 2 yrs on my own with my 'ment 2 be' friend tellin me it was all my fault. my current boyfriend no'z tho as he had a habit of breathin in my ear which makes me hav terrible flashbacks but he was supportive when he found out we now dnt talk about it but i no if i dnt it'll eat me up inside so thank u xxxx
deleted_user
deleted_user
this is not your fault, your friends are extremly shelfish, you are better off without them, you are worth so much more. What happened to you was rape, you didn't consent to it, you are very brave posting this on here, take care xx
deleted_user
deleted_user
they said it was ur fault? that makes me furious. NO IT WASNT! clue one--u werent in a state of mind to give permission...two--- u had bruises...suggesting whether u know or not u must have resisted... and 3--a friend pulled him off u!...that tells me that that friend saw that u werent awake... and willing and wanted to help. Im sorry this happened to you. ur not alone. Good luck on ur recovery
deleted_user
deleted_user
This is rape morally, as well as legally. The law specifies that it is rape if the target was unable to say no due to intoxication. He took advantage of you, and yes, it was rape.

Don't feel ashamed. You would not have agreed to it if you were aware of everything.

Pm me if you need anything. I'm always here for all of you. :)
deleted_user
deleted_user
This was not your fault at all.You weren't in any state to give cocent.No one should ever take advatage of someone when they are drinking.Your so called friends aren't much of being friends if they blame you You are not at fault for any of it.Please remember this.
deleted_user
deleted_user
thank all of you the person who kept tellin me it was my fault even though we are no longer friends still tells me that it was my fault and makes me out to other people to be a lier but she only started this after we had a major fall out her and her ex are my only wittness's and now proof but i dont get on with them now and the girls ex is friends with the boy who did this to me so i no i cant get any justice i'v seen the boy once sinse he did it and i had a major panic attack and ran away cryin and this was in school. sinse then i'v heard he's moved away which is lucky as my boyfriend was planning on making him pay for what he did by stabbin him but i told him not to as he would get in trouble then i'd be left with that guilt as well.anywayz thank u all for sayin it wasnt my fault its sinkin in a little bit n is a huge relief :') xxxx
Posts You May Be Interested In
  • GrassIsGreen

    acknowlodging

    Posted by: GrassIsGreen
    Last Reply: GrassIsGreen
    15
    I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
  • irishwriter

    come unwind in the bp lounge

    Posted by: irishwriter
    Last Reply: irishwriter
    7904
    theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??