Last month my girlfriend was gang raped twice in a months time by the same women. She doesn't talk about the incident much (I 1st heard from one of the rapist when she choice to brag,threaten and wage a kind of psychological war with me)but recently she confided that one of the women mocked her with me saying things like "Don't you wish she'd do you like I am." and etc. Eventually she started to wish it was me raping her. I want to be supportive but I feel like my responses are always wrong and like its my fualt so much so that I tried so break up with her in hopes that she wouldn't be targeted agian. In the end we stayed together but I believe she feels as if i'll abandon her now and that I think shes tainted. How can I be stronger and more supportive for her?
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