Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.
Hello all. :)
I was laying down to sleep, when I thought about this.
See, I'm aware many of you see men as threatening due to what they did, and seeing them that way is rational. I was just wondering if a tall guy seems more threatening than a small guy to you girls?
I ask this because I'm a very short guy. I'm 5' 3" and 19 years old. I work out a lot to make up for it, but I'm sure I still appear much less threatening. I hope that's the case, because I never want to be mistaken as one of those men, no, monsters that would hurt you.
I look 13, as well, even though I'm 19. I consider it a gift, really, since it means women are more willing to be friends with me without fear. I hope that's true, because I really enjoy the friendships I have with women.
The downside is that women don't feel as safe with me (as in me being able to protect them, but I work out and practice martial arts), so they tend to want to be friends, but no girl ever asks me out or says yes when I ask them. I'm okay with that, since I get paranoid in relationships anyway. I'd rather be small and single, with more friends, than tall and married with less friends.
Anyways, I was just wondering what you all feel regarding this question.
If I upset anyone by this topic, please let me know. I would never mean to do that.
Thanks in advance.
I was laying down to sleep, when I thought about this.
See, I'm aware many of you see men as threatening due to what they did, and seeing them that way is rational. I was just wondering if a tall guy seems more threatening than a small guy to you girls?
I ask this because I'm a very short guy. I'm 5' 3" and 19 years old. I work out a lot to make up for it, but I'm sure I still appear much less threatening. I hope that's the case, because I never want to be mistaken as one of those men, no, monsters that would hurt you.
I look 13, as well, even though I'm 19. I consider it a gift, really, since it means women are more willing to be friends with me without fear. I hope that's true, because I really enjoy the friendships I have with women.
The downside is that women don't feel as safe with me (as in me being able to protect them, but I work out and practice martial arts), so they tend to want to be friends, but no girl ever asks me out or says yes when I ask them. I'm okay with that, since I get paranoid in relationships anyway. I'd rather be small and single, with more friends, than tall and married with less friends.
Anyways, I was just wondering what you all feel regarding this question.
If I upset anyone by this topic, please let me know. I would never mean to do that.
Thanks in advance.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
It works two ways for me.
1. women trust me more easily, and thus I can be friends quicker.
2. Men think I'm weak due to size (which is not true since I've been in dozens of fights and won all of them except one).