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I received a text message last night from my exboyfriend who "hurt" me years ago. We do keep in touch but purely because I am friends with Gillian who is now his wife (personally I wish she'd chosen someone else).
Anyway the text asked me to go to their 1yr anniversary party and also hoped I was ok. So far ok. Then it said
"I hear you are not very well. Try not to make it my fault as always".
So the news of me going through radiotherapy for premalignant brain tumours has reached him and no i don't blame him but really did he have to say that. Just because he still stands by his stance that everything was consensual (3 seperate times and once I was post-ictal from a seizure)and sees me as trying to wreck his life I'm just not entirely sure why he would think i would blame health on him.
Not sure what im trying to say. It just upset me that's all.
My FB was for family only.That changed ( political disagreement.Anyway.. down to 30 % lung function.Not trying to extend my life. ( not treating emphysema. Just keep hoping I can take myself out before I have a stroke or heart attack and end up more of a burden.Anywaay..My FB name is of course, misspelled..( I have technical issues..or user error