
Rape Support Group
If you or someone you know has been the victim of rape, this is the place to find support and get advice. If you want, discuss your experience, share your feelings, and meet others going through a similar situation.

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Hey all! Ok like I know this sounds stupid but I want t o forget the bad stuff but remember the good stuff.. like making love under the tree and
giving back rubs.. but how do I do that in a healthy way?????
giving back rubs.. but how do I do that in a healthy way?????

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I don't think you can. It wouldn't be healthy to erase your memories...even bad memories no matter how painful can be helpful to your life. (I don't mean that being raped is helpful) I mean that if you ignored it or forgot it then you wouldn't learn anything from it and that could allow it to happen all over again.
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